Wednesday, August 23, 2006

"When I Can’t Do What I’m Supposed To Do"

When I started this blog three weeks ago, not only did I promise to update it every now and then, I also swore to myself to start doing the things that I need to accomplish – in my studies, in my organizations (KILOS!, KALIPI, Tabanog, SK…) and in my personal life!

However, whenever I begin to “reform” the complexities in every aspect of my being, for unknown reasons, I seldom achieve my planned purpose – to have a “desirable” end. Instead of a tangible outcome, I ended up with nothing but plain regrets.

I don’t know if it’s an opaque disease or a personal impairment but I’m definitely sick and tired of it. I already don’t want to put my word on the things which I plan to fail in the future nor do I like to tarnish my not-so-proven credibility. The way it is affecting my already chaotic life makes my world senseless. Figuring out what’s wrong with the way I perceive things also add to the grave burden my shoulder is carrying achingly.

For the people out there, I need help! . . . Help me to get rid off all the atrocities I am experiencing….Help me to be free from the senseless world I’m in. . . . Help me to avoid my self-destruction. . . . HELP ME!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sige, lets start it with this...

Ace is...
1. Smart and Intelligent
2. Keen Observer
3. Dedicated and committed

No question with his credibility as a LEADER,

but there is lacking...

Ace knows what he wants. He definitely knows what is good for himself, for the organization and for his family. He has a clear picture of all the things that he is engaged with.

What seems to be the problem?

When you talk to him, he could give you his position base on what he read and on his actual experiences. He is familiar with it because like what I have mentioned he is involved.

What seems to be the problem?

While drinking your coffee Mr. Ace Gomez, try to ponder this one thing- - -
1. SMALL THING

You are always looking at the big picture of all the things that you are in… You have a big plan for KILOS… You have so many proposals for the betterment of SK in your locality… You have this and that… It should be like this and that…

But what should be done first? How should it be done? And when should it be done?

These questions can be answered only (if) (when) you start with the details of it, (if) (when) you go down to specifics of all these things. It is important that you see the big picture but it is also important that you have a detailed plan to get into that big picture.

What was happening now is that your plan for the organization (and for yourself) is the one preventing you to accomplish it due to one thing that is lacking. That one (small) thing is the absence of well-arranged “course of action” on how to achieve your (and your group’s) goal. This is actually blocking you to start what has been planned and plotted.

Start charting the direction of your life and of your organization in one small dot and be consistent on adding dots accordingly to what has been required (or what you required yourself to do). Later, look what you have drawn out of dots.

Just start with small thing as long as you are following a clear path. Then, things will go smoothly. It goes on without any hardship and disappointments.

Believe me it works. It really works. It is a shallow point – so SIMPLE. But it simply works.

Just START....

Donnabee said...

You look into things in a macro perspective. Big things are products of small things. A hundred peso can never reach a hundred if there is no one peso. Chart your course. One little accomplishment at a time will go a long way in the future. Avoid wasting your time with too much thinking. "DO" the little things. Kilos na!